This message was delivered on Fathers Day, 2008, and focuses on what makes a good father.  Using the story of the prodigal son, Pastor Don points out that a true father is a father under all circumstances.  He understands that his children will leave home sometime, but he always has joy when they return.  Through his love for his children a father has respect for everyone.  When required he shows mercy, emotion, maturity, and forgiveness.  As the message unfolds think about how much of this is set as an example by God.

Message Outline -

Introduction:

Luke 15: 11-12 This is not an unusual request at that time.

There are things that you can do because you can, but you should not.

#I         The father was realistic:

a.       It is inevitable they will leave home.

b.      You can make it pleasant or a painful experience.

c.       Two mistakes I see people make.

a.       Not preparing them to move.

b.      Thinking they are more mature than they are.

d.      Build maturity into them by giving them responsibility.

#II        The father treated all people with respect. Vs. 12

a.       He witness how his father treated the people that worked for him.

b.      Home should be a safe place.

c.       Vs. 18 – 19 He came home humbled

d.      II Corinthians 5:17

e.       Romans 12:1-2

#III      The father was not afraid of his emotions. Vs. 20

a.       When you repress one emotion it affects other emotions.

b.      He was not afraid to say I love you.

#IV      Father was forgiving Vs. 22-24

a.       Teach them to have fun and rejoice over important things.

#V       The father showed his maturity Vs. 25-28

a.       The father when out to his son.

b.      Explain the importance of family.

c.       The mature Christians of the church are to work for the unity of the church.

d.      Roman 14.

Conclusion:

Luke 15:10